Make time for the one you love #love

So its happened.

I can now finally emphasise with women.

Well , OK, mothers.

I’m just too busy for sex.

Don’t get me wrong.

I don’t mean I’m not having sex.

Hell no.

All I’m saying is that it wasn’t the way it used to be.


Oh yes.

How it used to be…. care free…. exciting…spontaneous.

So what’s the cock blocker?

No not a kid…..

A promotion.

If I had known that I would have to work so hard I would never have accepted it.

Still, we are where we are, as we are fond of saying in Dublin.


So what can I do?

Do I do what mums do, and accept that this is how its going to be?

A lifetime of substandard stolen moments?

Or do I change jobs?

Sex or money?

I do like money.

And I do like sex.

Can’t I have both?

Seems not.


Mums give up good sex for their kids.

How are they able to do it?

Maybe they were never having good sex in the first place?

So it was easy to give up?

Must be.

But I’m only used to hot sex.

I know what I’m missing.


Now I’m not thinking just of myself.

I’m also thinking of my beloved.

“You need to start taking care of business or else….”

Or else?

Or else what?

I don’t like the sound of that.

Time to draft that resignation letter!

9 thoughts on “Make time for the one you love #love

  1. Oh dear, Mr India! The price you pay for going up in the world!
    It’s not about giving up one for the other, it’s about surviving on very little sleep and still functioning like Wonder Woman!

    You can have your cake and eat it too!!!
    You’ll have to learn to manage your time better. Book weekends away. Organise playdates etc. You know your Beloved would love those 😉

    And FYI………. Mums, or anyone, don’t give up good sex! I’m pretty sure it’s not possible.

  2. Let me just say personally that I never sacrificed an amazing orgasm for my kids! I do agree it hasn’t been as carefree as it used to be, but that just only mean that we have to more creative! If you really want it that bad you’ll do whatever it takes to have it. Weather it’s mind blowing sex, or a promotion.

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