I’ve always prided myself as being non judgemental.
But are there times when you really should judge someone?
When something is so wrong,
You have to speak up.
How about sleeping with a married hottie?
Isn’t that always wrong?
Helping a cheater cheat?
How could you Rob!
But are things always so black and white?
When is cheating not a bad thing?
I know what you are thinking.
Cheaters need their balls cut off.
Or cunt busting!
You’re only saying this because the cheater is hot!
Of course, you’re right.
He’s hot and we want him.
And yes, I’m trying to convince myself that I’m not an asshole.
So the question still stands.
Can I sleep with a cheater and still be an all around great guy?
In this particular case our ‘cheater’ has a partner that refuses to satisfy him sexually?
His long suffering wife is bit of a homophobe, and he likes to get boned.
What can he do?
Be miserable, take it out on her and the kids until he jumps off a bridge.
Or go out and get it out of his system every few weeks.
The way I see it is, I’m saving their marriage.
If I was not on hand to pork him every now and again he would have left her.
She’d be depressed (but ultimately free from his BS).
The kids would be sad that daddy left (but learn that unhealthy relationships do no last).
And I’d have a clingy man all over my ass.
So you see his is the lesser of two evils.
Some times it’s good t turn a blind eye.
Would you sleep with a cheater?