Fantasy Friday: Sexy Confidence

sex confidence

What exactly is it?

In my younger days, I equated it to acting the bollix.

To be the life and soul of the party: loud, brash and annoying.

Truth be told, I was quite turned on by the sort.

It just appealed to me.

Bird of a feather….

But when you are young you’re often dreary and full on.

Now I just roll my eyes when I see young men strutting like peacocks.

Is that really confidence?

No, I don’t think so.

Isn’t it just desperation?

Look at me everyone, I’m a clown.

Cute.

So what is real confidence?

Less is actually more.

Less strutting, more oozing.

It radiates from you.

How you carry yourself, and how you present yourself.

What you don’t say, as much as what you do.

Subtlety.

Don’t be all in my face.

But let me know that you are there.

If you want it, let me know.

Don’t be crass.

Be straight but sophisticated.

Tell me with body language.

Make sure you’re reading mine.

No one wants to hear you brag about the size of your cock.

But you can let me know that you know what you are doing.

Confidence is really a bag of contradictions.

But you can instinctively tell fake from real.

“We should fuck”.

It can be said right, and it can be said wrong.

Confidence is a smell.

It’s intangible but real.

Just don’t make a stink.

5 thoughts on “Fantasy Friday: Sexy Confidence

  1. The right level of confidence is one of the biggest turn ons there is. Someone who is only mildly good looking can suddenly become very attractive when they appear genuinely confident. Some people just need to learn the fine line between confident and cocky.

  2. I agree with what you are saying here.

    But, do you think that one can learn how to be this way or do you think that you either naturally have it or you don’t?

    Can you spot a person who has been coached to be confident?

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