Sinful Sunday: Ouch that hurts!

BDSM torture

There are some of us who love pain, and then there are those who don’t.

My beloved Houseguest enjoys the occasional spanking.

It excites her, turns her on, and makes her quite wet.

Myself on the other hand, I’m no pain whore.

No spankings for me, thank you!

And yet she insists on biting me.

What’s good for the goose and good for the other gender…….

Granted, she likes to bite me because my body turns her on, so naturally sympathetic.

After all, I’m hot.

But this is a game that neither of us takes particularly seriously.

A game that ends in fits of laughter and orgasms.

However, it does make me wonder how many ‘Doms’ or ‘Dommes’ out there can’t take what they dish out?

They only want to act out their part of the play.

Houseguest insists that no man can take what a woman can.

But I beg to differ; I’ve seen plenty of videos in which men are sex-tortured.

Alas, I am destined never to be one.

Don’t get me wrong, I like a bit of a slap and tickle.

But I think I love the idea of it more than the actuality.

It’s all bit of a pretence.

Yes, I’m playing a role.

For others it’s the real thing.

But does that matter?

Does pretending to be a ‘sub’ or a ‘dom’ make it any less fun?

Is sex anything ever than a great performance?

Do you think that you could switch roles?

Why not read one of my short taster novels.

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14 thoughts on “Sinful Sunday: Ouch that hurts!

  1. I can’t role play…my acting ability is horrid. I am a submissive, and if I ever tried to act like a Dom, I’m sure he’d laugh at me and then spank my bum!!
    and he’s certainly no switch, thank god.

  2. I think switching it up is fun and always keep things fresh and interesting. For all the pain/pleasure Robert has given me, I have pinched, choked, slapped and fucked that man into oblivion many times over. It’s all about what feels right at that moment.

    Right now, I’ve got my sights set on dominating a few lovelies with Robert, unless he wants me to line up with them for a lesson in submission. Lessons can be fun, but some just don’t seem to stick with me. lol

  3. I am with Robert, I am more of the slap and tickle variety. I am not turned on by real pain. Although, HG is right. It is a medical fact that women in general have a 10 times higher pain tolerance than men. We have to. As far as the sub/dom roles… For me, I believe a good relationship needs to be 50/50. That does not mean that both have to be spanked, just that both get equal pleasure and both feel equal control (in and out of bed). If you are a “dom” 24 hours a day, that not a sex role, it is a personality issue. 🙂

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