When is a fetish not a fetish?
What is a sexual fetish? I’ve always thought that a fetish was something that got you off that was a little bit unusual. Such as spanking, beautiful feet, expensive high heels, rubber, watersports, hot candle wax, my list goes on and on……
But when is a fetish no longer a fetish? Is the thing that makes a fetish, a ‘fetish’, the quality of being unusual and not widely practiced? So what happens when everyone is at it?
I used to think that anal sex is a fetish, but these days it seems everyone’s old granny is at it. So it seems to have lost its naughty quality. Though I doubt the day will ever come when I don’t get off on a bit of bum fun.
But it does raise an important point. Does a true fetish need to have a naughty forbidden quality? Something most people would think is odd and unappealing?
I must confess that I like having quirky sexual tastes that most people find odd. I prefer the way I serve champagne. It’s strangely satisfying.
Maybe we just have to admit that some of our fetishes are no longer really fetishes but just run of the mill sex acts? Does that make them any less fun? Well, for me at least, it does.
Where will this lead Robert? What crazy sex acts will I have to get up to, to satisfy my carnal urges? Will Houseguest be forced to dress up as a gimp and chase me around the house with a giant rubber chicken? (That’s not a hint Houseguest!)
What’s your fetish?
Do you agree?
Where do you think it will all end?